Screening, Verification...WHY?!
So, you’ve finally decided to see a professional. But you’re not a seat of your pants kinda guy, so of course you’re going to try and be careful. I getcha.
And, there’s not exactly a lot of information out there, is there? All you probably “know” about the adult industry are jokes and scandals in the media. The stereotypical hopping in, and driving off with a stranger.
But this? This is not some fly by night shop. You can’t just text me and have me over with less information than it would take to order a pizza.
I screen with real world information for my safety, and for the discretion of the people who have already trusted me.
I need to be able to verify that you are a real person. Who hasn’t been arrested for being dangerous, and who isn’t affiliated with law enforcement. I need to know that you have your own life, and it doesn’t revolve around disrupting mine. And should you ever decide to harm me, I need to know exactly who to send the police to.
This protects me physically, obviously. But it also allows me to rest assured that I’m meeting with another person who just wants to have a good time. I don’t want to have to treat you like I have to worry about you. How awkward would that be? Patting you down for a wire instead of giving you a hug? I, personally, do not enjoy providing that kind of experience. So I don’t offer it.
And since what’s good for the goose is often good for the gander, this benefits the people I care about, too. And yes, I do care about the people I’ve met. I’ve known several for over a decade.
They deserve to know that it’s me, not a cop, they’re talking to over email. They shouldn’t have to worry if my physical safety is being compromised. Their only concern when it comes to me, should be whether or not we can make our schedules align.
For me, for you, for our peace of mind, that is why I screen the way I do. And with nary a close call while traveling the whole US since 2012, I think the proof is in the pudding. Screening is so that I can trust you, and you can trust me.
